December 5, 2014


So I and a friend of mine embarked on a girl’s trip to the beautiful city of Pondicherry! The attraction was to travel alone (post marriage) without the comfort of having a husband by your side taking care of each and everything for you like a guardian angel always ready to protect you from the big bad world ! Lol!  Can we make it on our own? Shocked reactions to say the least (in my world at least) as it goes against the belief of the rules of marriage. Interesting reactions; ranging from disbelief to shock to being judged to finally accepting. I have to say that to go against the tide is an extremely difficult task for anyone; let alone a woman! Plus the world that we live in  is not woman friendly at all! So it’s quite scary with all kinds of thought that flow through your mind about violence against women that’s happening around the world. So the whole idea of a married woman travelling alone makes no sense to many. Infact I have to confess that I myself was quite scared; I was literally in two mind not sure of my decision.

Anyways to cut the long story short I finally did travel with a friend to Pondicherry and have to say that I really enjoyed the whole experience of going on a girl’s trip to Pondicherry. It was a unique experience for me. I enjoyed the freedom of travelling alone. I really wish that this world would transform into a woman friendly world; a world that empowers the feminine and not suppresses them. I really wish from the core of my heart that the masculine would support the feminine! If only I had a magic lamp; I would wish for the freedom of the feminine from all the bondage that binds her from discovering her awesomeness! If only men were not the enemy and treated women like a human being and not as a sex object! I dare to envision a world where women are safe to be themselves and have the freedom to express their awesomeness in the best way possible with no judgement attached! Three cheers to Pondicherry!!!